Hello Holidays!

Each year that passes I find myself getting more and more intentional about my gifts and wish list.  I ask people specifically what they would like, if I don’t know what could support their life.

I want to propose to enjoy a deeper conversation with your loved ones.  

Ask them about their biggest goals!  And what specifically could support them to get their faster?

Here are some different conversation starter ideas:

Out of health, money and love, which one is the most important to you for this coming year? 

(or mother hood? parenting, the home, inner and outer peace)

What is stressing you out the most that you would really love a big transformation in this next year?

What are three activities that you would love to do together this year?

From there I bet a beautiful conversation will blossom.  And you’ll get some specific ideas.  

Don’t just leave it up to “hopefully they like this”

Maybe they will say “I would love to get in better shape” ok, so would some workout equipment support you?  Would you love to go on more hikes (hiking gear, water bottles, versatile vest/condensable puffy jacket, great shoes, a nice looking hat that can get wet?

Maybe they will say “I would love to cook more” or learn to cook better:

So then you can ask, if they want a certain cook book(s), cookware, cute apron, fun timer, fun measuring cups…

Maybe they say they would “love to get their house under control"  

So then you can ask further, what does that mean?  Do they want to hire someone or take a course?  Do they want to be gifted some organizing sessions? 

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And how about for you?  What are you truly wanting this year?  Beyond gifts, what is your next level in life?

Is it health, money, love, the home…  ?

What is your current biggest stressor?

I LOVE doing internal work, and learning.  Maybe its an addiction lol.  I just did the exercise where I wrote out everything I can imagine for my dream life.  I love to do this every year.

Try it!  Write out everything!

And then… What can other people do or give to support your vision?

Do you want to improve your health?  Maybe add a list of books about health you would love to read, join a coaching group; what physical actives would you like to do?  Maybe you want to hike more, so ask for hiking gear, paddle boarding is so relaxing and fun!  Or maybe you want to learn jujitsu, ask for classes; a list of specific vitamins…

Maybe it's love.  You can ask for things that make you feel amazing, things you want to use on your dates, classes (improv is such a fun way to break out of your comfort zone!), and things that support you doing activities that make you happy, a subscription to a dating site…

Is Money your biggest desire?  Some books about Money, a money coach, or investing coach (they are not the same), lotto tickets, a course, a career change or gear to support your side hustle!

If home is your big stressor, then I’m your gal!  Ask for a gift certificate

Use the code: ILOVEMYHOME2025 to get a huge $100 off!

I encourage you to be thoughtful about your wish list and gifts, reduce the undesired items in your house, prevent living in a disorganized home.

Wishing you, very happy holidays!

Sending love, Jessica